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4 REAL Ways To Get A Man

Yup, it’s right here ladies. Four real ways to get a man. You already know that I only give you that “real talk” advice. So, I’m coming at you today with the realest, most honest help I can give you for landing a boyfriend…who will end up becoming your husband.

Now, this article is only for my readers who actually want to meet a man. If this is you, keep on reading. Below are four surefire ways to find your soulmate. I’m telling you…if you follow these instructions, you can’t go wrong.

Let’s go!

Item 1: If you want a good man, YOU need to be good. I can’t stress this enough. Ladies, you can’t claim you want a good man who’s got his shi* together, and you are a mess. Don’t go looking for Idris Elba, while you have shaky health, habits, and hygiene. You can’t search for a spiritual guy, and you’re dead inside. If you want a hot dude, then something about you needs to be hot. Your intellect. Your sexuality. Your charm. Your curves. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a man to bring something substantial to the table. But, you need to come with something, too.

Item 2: Make sure you actually want a man. I’ve written about this before. It’s human and natural to feel lonely, and there’s nothing wrong with looking for companionship. But, you must make the distinction. Are you looking for a companion? Or a mate? Do you want a casual thing? Or are you trying to get married after this Covid stuff is over? Is casual sex what you want? Or a long time lover? What ever you want is your business. But, you should figure out what that is before you start your pursuit.

Item 3: What kind of a man do you want? Don’t sneer. This is an important question. All women (all people, honestly) have their type of man that they dig. It’s not my place to judge whatever that type may be. However, I can implore you to figure out what your type of man actually is. If you like typically manly types of guys, go for that type. If you tend to do better socially with more beta-ish kinds of men, start putting feelers out. But, there are women out there who don’t know what sort of men that they work best with romantically. Women who’ve dated men from all over the personalty spectrum, and end up flailing at the dating game. If this is you, then I advise you to try to find out exactly what kind of lad really turns you on. You may have had female friends (or mothers) who told you that bookish men were the way to go, when in reality, some of your best times, and, sex, was with a bouncer who worked at your favorite bar. Trust me, this is a very important item on this list.

Item 4: Be ready for love. Newsflash. Love, relationships, couplings, are hard. They can be rewarding, fun, sexy, and blessed. But hard. Being in a relationship can be difficult. And, if you really want a man in your life, you have to be prepared for more than a few changes in your life. Are you ready for your sex life to change? Are you ready for your finances to change? Your privacy? Your living conditions? Your space? Your family composition? Your free time? Your actual body? If you meet a man, and he becomes ‘The One’, and if you two do it right, your union will lead to cohabitation, and, more than likely, marriage. Are you really ready for all of that? If so, then get your mingle on. If not…then you have some hard thinking to do.

Those are my four ways to find a man out here. You may have your own ways, and that’s awesome. I try to help. Sometimes, even successfully.

Good luck on your man-hunt.

The name of the game is LOVE. B.B.W. is here for love of all women. Let’s revolutionize, rock on, and have fun.

If you want to talk, have a complaint, or you want to do business, contact me here : Greg Simms Jr. (grgsmmsjr@gmail.com)

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